Friday, September 28, 2007

Life's a trip, or is it a dead end?

28 Sep 2007, ST

MEN-WOMEN HAPPINESS GAP

By David Leonhardt

LAST year, a team of researchers added a novel twist to something known as a time-use survey. Instead of simply asking people what they had done during the day, as pollsters have been doing since the 1960s, the researchers also asked how people felt during each activity. Were they happy? Interested? Tired? Stressed?

Not surprisingly, men and women often gave similar answers about what they liked to do (hanging out with friends) and did not like (paying bills). But there were also some activities that produced very different reactions from the two sexes - and one of them really stands out: Men apparently enjoy being with their parents, while women find time with their mum and dad to be slightly less pleasant than doing laundry.

Mr Alan Krueger, a Princeton economist working with four psychologists on the time-use research team, figures there is a simple explanation for the difference. For a woman, time with her parents is often like work, whether it is helping them pay bills or plan a family gathering.

'For men, it tends to be sitting on the sofa and watching football with their dad,' said Mr Krueger, who, when not crunching data, happens to enjoy watching the New York Giants with his father.

This intriguing - if unsettling - finding is part of a larger story: There appears to be a growing happiness gap between men and women.

Two new research papers, using very different methods, have both come to this conclusion. Ms Betsey Stevenson and Mr Justin Wolfers, economists at the University of Pennsylvania (and a couple), have looked at the traditional happiness data, in which people are simply asked how satisfied they are with their overall lives. In the early 1970s, women reported being slightly happier than men. Today, the two have switched places.

Mr Krueger, analysing time-use studies of the past four decades, has found an even starker pattern. Since the 1960s, men have gradually cut back on activities they find unpleasant. They now work less and relax more.

Over the same time span, women have replaced housework with paid work - and so are spending almost as much time doing things they do not enjoy as in the past. Forty years ago, a typical woman spent about 23 hours a week in an activity considered unpleasant, or 40 more minutes than a typical man. Today, with men working less, the gap is 90 minutes.

These trends are reminiscent of the idea of The Second Shift, a 1989 book by the sociologist Arlie Hochschild, arguing that modern women effectively had to hold down two jobs - the first shift at the office and the second at home.

But researchers who have looked at time-use data say the second-shift theory misses an important detail. Women are not actually working more than they were 30 or 40 years ago. They are instead doing different kinds of work. They are spending more time on paid work and less on cleaning and cooking.

What has changed - and what seems to be the most likely explanation for the happiness trends - is that women now have a much longer to-do list than they once did (including helping their ageing parents). They cannot possibly get it all done, and many end up feeling as if they are somehow falling short.

Dr Krueger's data, for instance, shows the average time devoted to dusting has fallen significantly in recent decades. There have not been any dust-related technological breakthroughs, so houses are probably just dirtier than they used to be.

Ms Stevenson recently had drinks with a business school graduate who came up with a nice way of summarising the problem. Her mother's goals in life, the student said, were to have a beautiful garden, a well-kept house and well-adjusted children who did well in school.

'I sort of want all those things, too,' the student said, as Ms Stevenson recalled, 'but I also want to have a great career and have an impact on the broader world.'

There also seems to be a happiness gap between boys and girls in high school. As life has gotten better over the past generation - less crime, longer-living grandparents and cooler gadgets - male high school seniors have become happier. About 25 per cent say they are very satisfied with their lives, up from 16 per cent in 1976. Roughly 22 per cent of senior girls now give that answer, unchanged from the 1970s.

When Ms Stevenson and I were talking recently about possible explanations, she mentioned her 'hottie theory'.

It is based on an April article in the New York Times by Ms Sara Rimer, about a group of incredibly impressive teenage girls in Newton, Massachusetts. The girls were getting better grades than the boys, playing varsity sports, helping to run the student government and doing community service. Yet one girl who had gotten a perfect 2,400 on her SAT noted that she and her friends still felt pressure to be 'effortlessly hot'.

As Ms Stevenson, who is 36, said: 'When I was in high school, it was clear being a hottie was the most important thing, and it's not that it's any less important today. It's that other things have become more important. And, frankly, people spent a lot of time trying to be a hottie when I was in high school. So I don't know where they find the time today.'

The two new papers - the Krueger paper will be published in the Brookings Papers on Economic Activity and the Stevenson-Wolfers one is still in draft form - are part of a burst of happiness research in recent years. There is no question that the research has its limitations.

Happiness, of course, is highly subjective.

NEW YORK TIMES


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